Do you or your partner ever had a heart in the third person or cheating? You are not alone.Research shows that infidelity rates may be as high as 60 to 70 percent, but it is difficult toget the right amount because it's all self-reported by those who have or do.
However, a study by Indiana University found that men and women having sex at the same level. But the reason why men and women do tend to differ from one another.
"Most women cheating because they feel a lack of emotional ties, while men having an affair because they often feel short of a sexual nature," says psychotherapist Tina B, Tessina, PhD.
But the thing is, no matter who and why they do it, it will have a serious impact on your relationship. Here are some of the types of changes that may occur as a result of someone having an affair, as reported on the Prevention, Sunday (08/21/2016):
1. You can not trust anything anymore
Not only makes the victim of infidelity can not trust their partner sexually and emotionally, but cheating may also make them begin to doubt their partners in other aspects.
"The affair resulted in a growing number of lies issued, making it very difficult to trust again. This then makes you also doubted the couple in other aspects, such as finance or parenting, "says psychotherapist specializing in couples sex therapy, Ian Kerner, PhD.
2. Your confidence slipped or jumped
"One of the reasons many people have affairs because they feel unwanted or unloved in conjunction. Then they find sexual or emotional appreciation in the third person, so it raises confidence, "says Kerner.
But on the other hand Tessina adds, people are cheated by a partner, will suffer and suffered a major blow at his pride.
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